I just clean, scrape, vacuum, polish with 600 grit, clean, wipe, repeat, repeat, for hours, the valve cover mating surfaces. Then I use a new gasket, or make one from gasket material if I need it right away. Then I put a super thin coat of anti-seize on the bottom surface of the gasket. Then I can re-use the same gasket, and it comes off like new every time after (no more cleaning etc.) I re-used one at least 4 times over the last 13 years, and it's still holding oil tight, but probably due for a new one on the next lash adjustment.
Sometimes you may have to use a tiny, tiny bit of sealer on the cam end plugs. The 550's have a bolt through the end plugs so sealing is not a big problem there on the 550's. The early big-fours seemed to have a problem there.
I don't like the idea of using RTV around the whole valve cover. I always find big shards of it in the head when people use it.